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How to Get a Girlfriend if You Have No Friends to Go Out and Meet Women With
Hey guys, My name is Daniel. I am 18 years old and I am from Germany. I am really hoping someone can give me some good advice on how to make friends and how to find a girlfriend. I am currently going to a new school just came back from a year in America and everyone in my class is years younger than me in which I seem to be kinda popular but not really popular, more like people accept my appearance. And here we get to my problem.
I just seem to not be able to find any friends to hang out with and have some fun with. In my free time I like to play soccer and play saxophon. It kinda ran out of action and mostly got boring. My last relationship has been broken up by a girl. I asked her quite some time before those days as well. Well sorry for all this nonsense. My main point is I would love to have a girlfriend again and spend some of my freetime with her.
I am an average student and I think I could boost my grades too. If I would have some friends and a girlfriend I would have something else in mind, rather than school. I played soccer for 10 years and always had problems finding a real friend group.
I always got a along with everyone but rarely did anything in private with the other guys from my soccer club. I hope someone can help me since it would make my life so much more pleasent and diversified not just playing video games, saxophon and doing my school work. PS: Sorry for this long text and I could understand if it is too long for people to read it. Hi Daniel! One idea that has worked for me is to find a group that meet up to do something specific e.
Having a mutual interest is a great start when getting to know new people! When that time comes when you meet someone who appreciates you for your natural qualities and talents, it will be so worth it! Hey Roadrunner, First of all, thank you for your advice it already helped me a bit especially in staying positive because I do get depressed sometimes, being alone. I heard them talking about some other birthday party this week, perhaps of a former classmate or someone in a different class.
I do agree with your point, saying that mutual interests can be a great start to find new friends. I feel like I have a social problem. I barely have anything to do and feel like I waste my time. Every beginning of a new week in which I can see my classmates again I try to tell myself I can do it and " this week" I will connect to them.
You already told me how you kind of solved the problem and it helped me considering different approaches. It probably is a lot of unnecessary information for you. Anyways thank you for your help, I do appreciate it a lot. Hopefully you can find yourself even more real friends who see this amazing character in you. Again, I can relate to what you said, I know that I definitely felt depressed and alone when I was I was finishing my A-levels at school which I completely failed due to lack of motivation and general mental health issues.
It felt like a huge step backwards when I then had to go to college with 16 year olds and I felt a bit worthless for a long time. Different things work for different people when it comes to fighting loneliness and depression, what worked for me was to join a local running club at the time I had started going running when I was upset or angry to release my emotion by running as fast as I could until I got breathless lol.
At the running club I joined I met some genuine and caring people who helped me a lot. I hope that you do find a group who love and care for you because you deserve that. Push through those low feelings because they will pass, when you feel that way, do something that you know that you enjoy to give you a boost.
I wish you the best with everything and thanks for your kind words! I am glad you were able to find a balance for the lack of social contacts and being able to solve it. For myslef I am sure, that I will eventually find some people who will care and love for me. It will just take a little more time and some practice keeping people interest in me and my personality.
I guess i could try to use that as a tool to overcome it. Lastly something else. What I can say is that if you keep making an effort to meet people when you get a chance to, you will eventually get a gut instinct while talking to a girl that she would be a good fit, if you feel that way then be brave and tell her how you feel!
Okay haha. I am sorry if I kinda digged in your private life xd. It always makes me wonder if there could be something else happening… I will just go for it in the context in which it is possible for me. Well thank you again so so much for all the time and effort you put into this! You really did encourage me to be more brave. I guess, best I can do is pray for you to keep up your good work and make it even better!
You are capable of much more than you think. Always remember that! By the way, I am sorry for my somewhat broken English. I would be really flattered. Thank you for your kind reply! I am happy that I have been able to help you to see things in a more positive way. Life is what you make it, so if you see an opportunity to do something outside of your comfort zone, just take a deep breath and take that first step! Your English is very good, I have heard English people speak far worse than you haha… always believe in yourself because you are a talented and intelligent person.
You have the best years of your life ahead of you so look forwards not backwards! As far as getting a girlfriend goes, I sadly have no real advice. My best friend reminds me of you. He so desperately wants a girlfriend because he thinks it will make him happy, and hell, it just might.
But just remember this: maybe a girl will make you happy at first, but in a month? A year? Make sure you find a way to be happy on your own before you find a girl. Find new hobbies, do something that really interests you. A girl will come eventually, but until then just do you. Feeling lonely no friends and especially no girlfriend Encouragement.
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21 Reasons You Can’t Get A Girlfriend
Sometimes a guy will find himself in a situation where all of his friends have settled down i. The first bonus tip is how I made a whole bunch of female friends and got some of them competing with each other to hook up with me, or be my girlfriend. Some of these women are still my female friends to this day, even though I have settled down and am in a committed relationship. Alternatively, he may talk to a pretty waitress and find her attractive and want to get something going between him and her, but he just has a friendly conversation with her.
Updated: October 22, References. Once you get your heart set on a special girl, all you have to do is show her you care before you make her yours and start a fun and meaningful relationship. If you've never had a girlfriend before and want to find the right girl for you, search for someone who shares your interests, instead of focusing too much on looks. For example, if you love sports, try meeting a girl by joining an intramural sports team.
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Hey guys, My name is Daniel. I am 18 years old and I am from Germany. I am really hoping someone can give me some good advice on how to make friends and how to find a girlfriend. I am currently going to a new school just came back from a year in America and everyone in my class is years younger than me in which I seem to be kinda popular but not really popular, more like people accept my appearance. And here we get to my problem. I just seem to not be able to find any friends to hang out with and have some fun with. In my free time I like to play soccer and play saxophon.
The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion! Girl's Behavior. I stopped trusting people a long time ago after a HS incident. The friends who I thought were my friends all left me. They cut off all connections to me - Changed their numbers, stopped inviting me out, stopped talking to me.
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My girlfriend has no friends?
I have zero friends and few acquaintances. My lack of friendships is making me feel inadequate. I want a group of girlfriends I can confide in and connect with — even a single friend would mean so much. I get tearful when I see groups of friends out and about.
Last updated on February 14, During my high school years, it was hard for me to connect with people. I felt depressed when no one liked me, and I hated having to spend weekends and evenings alone. On top of that, I was an introvert who felt shy in large groups, so parties or mingles were not for me. I was certain there was something wrong with me. I started reading about social skills and how to get a social life up and running.
My girlfriend has no friends?
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